Cooking
by Feeling: Honoring Black Culture Through healthy Food
People learn
to express love in various ways. We identify what is available to give, what we
can share, and what we will enjoy. From the hugs and hugs, we get our love
tongues and speak very well as we become accustomed to speaking and living.
Food is the
language of universal love, and in black society, this love is deep. It stems
from the desire to feed others, to spend time together, to preserve culture,
and to live within our means.
Although we
face the effects of racial inequality, from the loss of life to life in the
food desert, one thing we all know is how we can ensure that everyone is
nourished.
Eating as a
cultural expression
Food is not
only a form of love but also a way to build and protect culture.
Immigrants
retain knowledge of their countries, bringing different names of ingredients
and traditional ways of preparing them. Black parents make sure their children
and grandchildren learn those words and skills needed to turn them into their
favorite dishes.
Thus,
food becomes a source of memory.
Black-eyed
peas on New Year's Day call for prosperity for the family, confirming their
place on the menu every year. Everyone who eats in that pot remembers the years
gone by, who built a peacock with black eyes, and what the elders said about
it.
Similarly,
chicken broth reminds us of a last visit to Jamaica where the right spices and
seasonings were purchased and our ancestor shared the secret of the best potato
salad.
As
children, we were called to the kitchen to help with dinner.
Take the
chicken out of the fridge before Mom gets home. Peel a squash, grate it and
squeeze the health for juice. Grate cheese macaroni pie. Wash the rice. Boil
the eggs. Rub the cabbage. The pea shell. Dice the onions. Cut the meat.
The elders
make sure that we learn to do the preparatory work. As we grow older age , our
responsibilities increaseble.
Go to the
butcher and find the right cuts for the meat. Clean the chicken. Look at the
pot. Keep pushing, don't give up.
No recipe
but love
We spend so
much time in the kitchen and near the dining room table that memories never
fade. When we sit down to eat on special occasions, we do not know which ones
will come out for us or for the other people there.
We always
know what dishes we need to cook for every holiday and event. That is what the
new generation needs help with, however, the process.
How could we
spend so much time helping our elders prepare meals without learning the proper
recipes?
First, there
are no recipes. Even if someone writes down the emphasis on another relative,
it is a comparison. There is no pamphlet that can tell you how to turn food
into love.
Our
grandmothers told us to add a handful of cheese. They tell us to cook the pasta
until it runs out, and then leave it in the water for a few minutes - but not
for too long! They warn us not to wash after draining. They give us measure by
hand, but our hands are not their hands. They spice it up with sprinkles, dice,
coins, and “just enough.”
We want,
badly, to talk to us about cups and spoons.
They hear
our despair when we call them. As they say “ummm” when they find their
recipients, we can visualize them, eyes closed, trying to think of something
like size, color, or texture.
“Please,
Grammy,” we think. “Tell me,‘ So much macaroni, so much cheese, so much milk.
First do this, then this one, then this one. '”
Grammy says,
“Just a little bit of this, the list goes on. Make it until it looks like
pancake batter. Maybe a little thicker. ”
Our elders
told us to go and do it. Do what you feel is right. They seem to trust us more
than we do.
We hunt for
recipes, call for accurate measurements and methods. What we remember is how it
looked on our plates. Taste. The memory we had we keep having.
“What
have you been doing all this time cooking?”
We complain
that we were caught peeling potatoes, but then we hear a Grammy smile.
“How many
potatoes did you peel?”
It all comes
back. We know how many potatoes will feed our family. We remember what a
mountain of minced cheese looked like. We were not paying attention when the
chicken spiced, but we remember what it was like to go into the oven. We can
decide how many sprigs of rosemary fit into it.
We can
remember the color of the spices and the taste, so that we can find it by
seeing and smelling as we go.
Black
cuisine builds a community
Black adults
do not provide recipes. They give us so much. Their menus are protected from
our memories. The smell of their kitchen does not leave us. They help us to
develop the skills and speed that make preparing the air cool.
Now that we
are older, black elders give us the freedom to explore for ourselves, with age
guidance and delicious food as our foundation.
We learn
that food is not just science. It's an art. It does not just create emotions,
it arises emotionally.
We play with
sprinkling ingredients “until our ancestors say,‘ Stop, ’” but that is true. We
learn to follow our instincts, create, and make every meal an experience, from
preparation to post-dessert relaxation.
Black
cooking is community building. Black food is shared. Dark creation is a daily
practice that transforms desire into the formation of new memories.
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